Benefits of Mama Gaul at School
Like other parents’ behavior, Mama’s interactions with other parents can also be an example for children on how to have social interactions with other people. This ability to interact is especially needed by children who have not yet entered the formal education level, although it is still relevant for children who are already in elementary school (SD) and so on.
Maybe you sometimes don’t realize that children see how their parents communicate and behave when dealing with other people, and that will become a model of behavior that is imitated by children. That is why you should make sure that the example your child sees is a good guide for him or her.
In connection with that, Roslina Verauli, M. Psi, a psychologist from Pondok Indah Hospital Jakarta, reminds you to be aware of the negative risks that may arise from unhealthy relationships between parents. “An example of an unhealthy relationship is a parent who only wants to be friends with a group of people who are unhealthy and don’t want to make friends with other students’ parents.
There are also parents who make a ‘selection’ before making friends. For example, asking where her house is, what car is her husband’s job, and so on. If your behavior is like this, don’t be surprised if your child will also learn to be arrogant and picky with friends, ”said Vera.
In addition, another problem that often arises is when parents involve themselves too deeply dispute between the child and his friend. “In fact, their names are also children, there must be times when they fight — which is usually caused by trivial things like fighting over toys.
The majority of such cases can be resolved by children themselves. Unfortunately, sometimes there are parents who put themselves in the middle of the arena and inadvertently open up conflicts with the parents of the child concerned. As a result, when their children are getting better, the parents are still hostile to each other, ”continued Vera.
Therefore, Ma, the relationship between fellow parents must be controlled so as not to get too involved emotionally. Don’t forget that your initial motivation to build relationships with other students’ parents is to smoothen the children’s education and social life at school, not to hinder their steps. “It should be remembered that interaction with fellow students’ parents is a gathering place, and not a place to show off their children, beauty, property, work, and so on. It all has nothing to do with your little one’s education and even risks harming yourself and your children, ”added Vera.
